In response to your letter where you write regarding Shidduch suggestions that you are not satisfied with the suggestions amongst the Tmimim and want to look in other circles.
As is known, no person is perfect, only Hashem is perfect, so to with the Tmimim, we can find faults in all of them.
However - all people are like this (imperfect), and nevertheless people get married and live in true happiness.
One should first look at the important traits and not the secondary ones, I don't believe that in regards to a Shidduch that will affect your entire life, you should not focus on important matters (Yiras Shamayim of the Bochur) and focus on secondary matters (financial) or even lower matters than this.
With blessings,
The Rebbe's Signature
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