It's funny how newsletter themes and topics just jump up at random and say, "Look at me!" Or does that only happen to us?

Role Play vs. D/s Relationships

In the latest Kink of the Week, the topic is "role play" which brought to mind the accusation we've heard that D/s is just role play. Maybe for some, but not for many of us. Read more.

Be Careful Who You Label "Real"

When someone does something dangerous or wrong, we say they're not a "real" Dom or sub. But when we hear the term applied to the way we D/s, we're upset. Let's be careful who we decide is "real" or not. Read more.

What Does It Mean to Be a Dom or Sub? (Podcast Episode)

There's no way to come up with a definition of Dominance or submission that encompasses everyone, but it does make for a fascinating conversation. Listen to episode 133.

Thanks for hanging with us through this wild ride. We love and appreciate you all so much!

XOXO!
Kayla and John