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5 quick things –
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Hi beautiful,

If there is one thing I want to say to you this week, it is to tell you that gratitude can be a powerful antidote to fear

If you are feeling afraid, that's totally fine and expected and you don't need to beat yourself up for that. What's happening around us is truly scary. You can let that fear be what it is. But you can also introduce some gratitude.

Making a gratitude list in the morning or before bed; posting sticky notes about what you are grateful for on the wall; going around the table before a meal and asking everyone to say one thing they are grateful for; telling the people in your life why you are grateful for them–these are simple, powerful practices. I encourage you to spend even just one moment today sharing or writing down what you are grateful for. đź™Ź

    Okay here are your five things for this (stressful) week. âŹ¬

    MEDITATION PRACTICE
    1. shall we sit together? (online)

    I'm thinking about doing a free live online loving-kindness meditation where we can all sit together over video chat. Would you want to do this? If so, just hit reply and let me know, or shout out to me on Twitter.

    (Loving-kindness meditation–a.k.a. metta meditation–is a great way to connect with our own hearts and to radiate loving energy to the world around us.)

    Meanwhile, here are some guided meditations I think you might find helpful right now: 

    ANXIETY
    2. simple practices for anxiety

    The first rule of anxiety is ...  don't beat yourself up for having it! It's not a character flaw; it's your body's way of telling you that something is going awry. It's a messenger. And we can choose to be kind to messengers.

    However, we don't have to let anxiety rule our lives. Here are some ways that we can directly reduce anxiety: 

    Also: Women's Health Magazine in Australia just put my book to the test, and here they list four practices that they found work really well for stress. I also love the bonus 60-second tips they included at the end.

    Doing your longer meditation sessions will be very helpful to you right now, but you can also do these things in just a minute. Take good care!

    READ ME
    3. escape into a book (or song)

    What a good time to read a great book!  Here are some recommendations if you are interested in escaping into a story: 

    p.s. It’s also a good time to escape into music! Here is a Spotify playlist I am loving lately called "Soothe My Soul."

    IRL
    4. retreat with us + 'demons' west coast book tour

    This July, I will be teaching about mindful technology and leading daily meditation at the Mindful Unplug retreat at the renowned Feathered Pipe Ranch outside of Helena, Montana. I am proud of a lot about this offering–the location, the price, the spaciousness! I hope you might consider joining us.

    Also, my friend Adreanna Limbach, author of the wonderful book Tea and Cake With Demons: A Buddhist Guide to Feeling Worthyis coming to LA, SF, and Austin this month on her West Coast book tour. She is a fantastic meditation teacher, and it’s also a great chance to experience some sangha, or community, in the midst of these moments of disconnection.

    STAYING HOME
    5. tips to work from home

    Speaking of staying home, as someone who has worked from home for.... well since I walked out of the mall almost two decades ago, here are my tips for working from home (or doing school from home): 

    • Still do your regular morning routine, including getting dressed for the day (it sounds obvious, but it's easy to slide into pajama-working mode.)
    • Have a dedicated space just for work and nothing else. It can be a desk, or a spot at the table, or whatever–but set it up just for work, and when you are in this space, you are working–you and anyone else in your home needs to respect that. Use masking tape to mark the space out on the floor if you have to.
    • Do not, I repeat, do not try to mix housework and work-work. Don't do laundry while you do emails, etc. Keep these boundaries separate or you will drive yourself mad.

    What might seem kinda cool at first (like being able to do chores while on a conference call, or working in your jam-jams) can quickly devolve into feeling like there is no "off" from work. When work touches everything, everything becomes work. So do yourself a favor and keep those boundaries. :) 

    Remember, things are scary right now, but there is a lot to be grateful for, too. I am grateful for your continued time and attention, for daylight saving time happening this weekend, and for the love of my family. Wishing you a lot to be grateful for, too.

    Love,

    p.s. Don't forget that it is okay to take a break from the news! Care for your soul, my friend.

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