Rosa (Italy, Japan, Germany, 2014-17)
說到意大利人,你會聯想到什麼? 說到德國人,你又會想到什麼? 我們常說接待交流生是一個認識不同國家文化的好機會,但對曾經接待過意大利、德國和日本交流生的Rosa而言還不止於此,這些經驗更打破了她與她的家人對不同文化的刻板印象。
Rosa一家在2014-15年及2015-16年分別都接待過意大利交流生,左邊照片中的Anna比較像她印象中的意大利人,獨立外向,但時間及衛生觀念都與一般香港人的期望不一致,使與她同房的女兒Cherry覺得難以接受。不過,Rosa說,正因如此,Cherry在與Anna相處的過程中,漸漸代入了父母甚至接待家庭的角色,讓她更了解該如何做一個女兒以及一個交流生。第二年幫忙接待Martina,則打破了Rosa對意大利人的少許偏見。她驚訝地發現Martina是一個很有計劃、責任感及守時的人,讓她切身體會到每一個國家都有各種不同的人,因此不應該以國藉去判斷一個人。
在開始接待交流生之前,Cherry並不想去參與海外交流計劃,但這兩年經驗改變了她。在2016-17年,她決定前往德國交流。有趣的是,他們家在同一年也接待了一位德國交流生。到了今年,Rosa一家到德國旅行,與Cherry的接待家庭相聚,正在意大利的Martina亦特意到柏林加入他們! 相信對於他們所有人而言,那都是一趟相當難忘的旅程!
What pop into your mind when you think of Italian and German? We always say hosting students is a great way to experience culture of different countries, but for Rosa who hosted students from Italy, Germany and Japan before, it is far more than that. These experiences broke the stereotype of Rosa and her family.
Rosa's family hosted Italian exchange students in both 2014-15 and 2015-16. Anna, who are on the photos on the left, is more like a 'typical' Italian. She is independent and outgoing, but her concept in time and hygiene is different from what we usually expect in Hong Kong, which made it difficult for Rosa's daughter Cherry to share the same room with her. However, Rosa said it was actually a chance for Cherry to think like a mum or a host family and know how a daughter and an exchange student should behave. Hosting another Italian student Martina next year was then an experience which changed Rosa's perception on Italian. As Martina is such an organized, responsible and punctual person, she realized that it is not accurate to judge a person based on his or her nationality. There are so many different kinds of people in every country.
Before hosting students, Cherry was not willing to join the year exchange program, but this 2-year experience really changed her mind. In 2016-17 she decided to spend a year in Germany. Interestingly Rosa also hosted a German student in the same year. This year Rosa's family traveled to Germany and met Cherry's host family there, Martina also joined them in Berlin! We believe that it was a memorable experience for all of them!
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