Hello magical creators!

As writers, you surely know that words have power (and yes, I called you Shirley! :)).  

Every word has a vibration. That's why we search around for the exact right word when describing something. Speaking certain words lifts us because their vibrations are higher. Words like love, beautiful, thank you, gratitude.  Other words can tank our energy.  (Should I even mention them here? Nah, I want this to stay high vibe). 

When you're creating your future, avoid saying "I want ___".  The word "want" actually means you lack it. To be in want of something is to lack it.  We don't want to reinforce that to the Universe or our subconscious. You could say, "I desire that."  But the most powerful affirmation would be, "I'm having that."  You don't have to know HOW you're going to have that, or what it will take to get there, but you're forcing all the doubt out of the room with that powerful statement.  There's no wiggle room.  It's not "It would be nice to have..."  Or "I wish I could have..." or "Someday I'll have..."  

It's a clear directive to your subconscious and the Universe. You're programming your energy field:  "I'm having that."

It's also important to only speak into being the things you WANT to show up in your life, not the things you don't.  Remember that the subconscious doesn't distinguish the positive or negative, it just operates on the words / thoughts that are spoken.

If I tell you, "Don't think of a blue fairy", you're seeing a blue fairy now, right?  So if you don't want blue fairies to keep showing up (I mean, I don't know why that would be, but maybe you really dislike blue fairies) then the trick is not to keep talking about blue fairies.  The trick is to talk about and think about what you DO want to show up. (Maybe it's green fairies?).

It's just like parenting a toddler.  Telling them "No" all day long does very little. It just keeps their focus on the thing they want to do.  Instead, you tell them what they CAN do.  Redirect them. You want them to stop throwing sand? You say, "Sand is for building castles" or "Sand stays in the sandbox" or "Sand is to bury our feet in".  Invite the change you want.

When my kids were young, I tried to program them to make a request instead of issuing a complaint in hopes it would teach them to become powerful manifesters. "I'm hungry" becomes "May I have a snack?" Can you sense the difference in energy of the two?  The complaint hits like a thud.  The request feels like possibility. 

So, I hate to tell you to police yourself and your language, but if you can do it without judging yourself--if you can make it a game--that's my invitation. Retraining yourself to use the words that match the vibration of your desired outcome can make all the difference.

Here's to speaking our new realities into being...

XXXOOO

Love,
Renee