It's not what you are listening to--it's who you're listening with.
Collect moments, not things.
We hear and read quotes like this all the time, reminding us that it's not always the material things that carry the most meaning in the long arc of our lives. In the case of travel, it's often our experiences that stick with us.
Perhaps we have photos of the experience. or perhaps it's only preserved in our minds. Maybe we've even embellished it. If we are fortunate, a travel experience has moved us–to joy, to tears, to action.
The Personal Connection
One of the surest ways to move from a tour to an experience is to have the right guide. Sure, you can walk around a major sight with your nose in a book or an app. But having to constantly refer to a source can keep you from a deeper experience that would be available if you were able to shed that crutch, or relieve yourself of the responsibility to inform your travel companions of what you're reading.
Visiting a destination or an attraction–be it famous or obscure–in the company of a specialist guide can elevate a travel experience beyond what you may even be able to imagine. I was well into adulthood before I decided to spring for a guided tour, but I've never looked back.
A larger group situation is a start, but a smaller number of participants is even better. Why? Because with just a few people along for the tour, you have the opportunity to ask questions about what you're seeing or learning.
If you're in a position to enjoy a completely private tour, that free flow of conversation and experience is heightened to the point that your guide can change plans on the fly, to cater to a particular interest that you might want to explore or to make a detour that wasn't on the original itinerary.
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