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Attention! Change of Plans for This Sunday!
Unfortunately, Rev. Diana has tested positive for COVID, which means that she won't be able to attend church this Sunday and we will need to postpone the Animal Blessing service until later in November. Please spread the word: do NOT bring your animal friends to church this Sunday!
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Sundays at First Unitarian Church |
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Sunday, October 1 - 11:00 am
"Unconventional Saints and Unconventional Super Powers"
Join us in person or watch on YouTube.
With our Blessing of the Animals service postponed until late November due to Rev. Diana coming down with COVID, join us this Sunday for an all ages, multigenerational worship led by our Director of Lifespan Religious Exploration Tim Atkins. We’re going to explore the idea of unconventional saints and unconventional super powers. Not all super powers show up in comics - what might already be inside you as an unconventional super power that will transform you into an unconventional saint? What can we learn about unconventional superpowers from unconventional saints in history, and from the unconventional saints in our own lives?
Participating in Sunday's service:
Service Leader: Tim Atkins, DLRE; Worship Associate: Cortney Custer; Chalice Lighting: the Krukowski family; Call to Offering: Derrick Wagner; Choir Director: Chukwuebuka "Ebuka" Ezeakacha; Accompanist: Steven Elkins Kennedy; Music: 1UC Choir; Technical Support: Tammy Epperson and Ellisya Ravencroft
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On Preparing to Say Goodbye - A Letter from Rev. Diana |
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Upcoming Sunday Morning Services - 11:00 am
October
October 8 - "Your Life" (National Coming Out Day)
October 15 - "Quiet Courage"
October 22 - "Quiet Leaders: In Praise of Introverts"
October 29 - Halloween
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Child Care and Nursery
The Childcare Rooms are open from 10:00 am to 12:30 pm each Sunday morning. (10:00 am to 11:00 am for childcare for any adult programming happening and 11:00 am to 12:30 pm for worship.)
Childcare will be taking place in the nursery and attached preschool room.
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Sunday, October 1 - 10:00 am
Sunday Morning Meditation (In-Person)
Please join us for meditation practice in the Buddhist tradition (lower level, next to Corley Commons).
All are welcome; no meditation experience necessary!
For more information contact Lori Jervis.
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Sunday, October 1, 10:00 am
Sunday Morning Coffee Hour
We’re making a slight tweak to our Sunday morning pre-service programming. Instead of the “Forum”, we’re thinking of it as “Morning Coffee Hour.” In addition to our wonderful Meditation Sunday mornings before service, you’re now also welcome to hang out in Daniel Hall from 10:00 am - 11:00 am, grab a cup of coffee, and chat with your fellow congregants about whatever’s on your mind.
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Lifespan Religious Exploration |
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Fellowship Dinners
Signup has begun for our coming popular social activity, Fellowship Dinners! 13 units signed up last Sunday, many people expressing their pleasure that these dinners will resume! We will be in Daniel Hall taking reservations for the next 4 Sundays. Also, to sign up or to ask questions, please email Barbara Gallivan, bgallivan@cox.net,405-209-7386. Registration will close on October 15.
The beauty of this program is getting to know people of our church whom you may not know now in a small-group setting. Some of us have participated for decades because we enjoy it so much!
There will be four dinners, in November, January, February and March. You and your partner will be placed into a rotation schedule where you will have dinner with three other couples or singles, different people each month. If you are single your participation is welcome. And if you can pair up with another single, that enhances the experience.
There are four parts to each meal, and each month you will bring one of the components. This will also rotate, so that one month you will be the host, opening your home and providing hors d'oeuvres and beverages. Next you will provide the main dish. Another month you will bring a vegetable and dessert. The fourth assignment is salad and bread.
Your home or dining spot doesn’t need to be fancy; just do what is comfortable for you. Please don’t let a concern about that deter you from signing up!
I look forward to dining with you! -Barbara
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The Garden Covenant Group
The Gardening Covenant Group worked very hard on the grounds last Saturday morning. Working were Barbara Gallivan, Bill Dinger, Carmen McBride, Cassie Collins, Emily Dunagin, Henry Mertens, Joan Cain, Liz Pillar-Little, Terry Ward, and joining us and working just as hard was Larry Little. We hope you notice and appreciate our work!
If you are interested in joining the Gardening Covenant Group, please email Barb Gallivan, bgallivan@cox.net, or call 405-209-7386. We also love it when people, like Larry, come to help on our work days. We have a lot of fun and sometimes have excursions and parties!
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News from Befrienders
Befrienders is ready to assist members of our church who are recovering from surgeries or illnesses by offering cards of well-wishes, meal trains, transportation to church or medical appointments as well as arranging for visitations, and we provide the receptions following memorial services.
Befrienders relies upon donations. Those donations are used to provide cards, stamps, occasional meals, and items for memorial receptions. If you wish to make a donation, please send a check and put Befrienders on the purpose line of your check. Thank you.
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First Unitarian Cares!
If you (or someone you care about in our community) would like a caring card, a ride, a meal delivered to your home, a prayer, or a pastoral visit, please fill out a pastoral care request form on our website: https://1uc.org/connect/pastor... or contact Rev. Diana or Susan Bishop (chair of the Befrienders).
Please contact Rev. Diana directly if you need financial assistance. The Minister's Discretionary Fund is available for anyone who needs emergency financial support. In the past, the fund has been used to help cover rent, groceries, fuel, home repairs, medical costs and other needs. Allocations from this fund are completely confidential.
Requests for support from this fund have risen significantly. If you have financial capacity, please consider making a gift to the Minister's Discretionary Fund. Thank you!
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Adult Education Classes & Courses |
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Tuesday, October 3 - 11:30 am
1UC Alliance
Our next Alliance Meeting will be Tuesday, October 3!. Bring a brown bag lunch. We’ll eat at 11:30 am and our presentation by Mark Brennaman on “Laughter Yoga” will begin at noon. It’s sure to be fun! Afterward we’ll have our business meeting and we have lots to discuss. Visitors are always welcome.
Don’t forget to pay your yearly dues of $10, and we encourage you to bring someone new to our gathering.
Contact Maureen Harvey for more information (mharvey5@cox.net)
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Thursday, October 5, 7:00 pm
UU Book Club
Join us Thursday, October 5, at 7:00 pm, where we will be discussing, An Elderly Lady is Up to No Good by Helene Tursten.
Our books for the next couple months will be:
- November 2023 - Horse by Geraldine Brooks
- December 2023 - Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin
For more information please contact Steve Gryglewicz at stgryg@yahoo.com
Join Zoom Meeting:
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/8805...
Meeting ID: 880 5124 8829
Passcode: 398265
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September Change for Change
For the month of October, our Change for Change partner is Freedom Oklahoma.
Freedom Oklahoma advocates and organizes across Oklahoma and within the 39 sovereign tribal nations that call this land home to build a future where all Two Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, and fuller spectrum of people whose sexuality or gender or romantic identity exists beyond a heteronormative, binary framework (2SLGBTQ+), have the safety to thrive.
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SISU Youth Services |
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1UC member, Larry Little dropped off the check to our August Change for Change recipient, SISU Youth Services in the amount of $1,757.70. They were so grateful, and 1UC will be invited for the opening of their new facility in the near future.
Pictured: Larry Little (l) Avery Jouris, Development Coordinator at SISU Youth Services (r)
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CHANGE FOR CHANGE needs your help. Did you know that anyone can suggest a worthy local non-profit in our community? Do you know how?
- Check out the 1uc.org website and click on the justice tab
- Then click on Community Partnerships and click on the application in green in the middle of the page.
- Submit the application to Deborah Shinn or Anne Murray, or leave it in the office Social Justice mailbox. Or you can email the completed application to them. They can be found in Breeze.
NEWS FROM UUSC (UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST SERVICE COMMITTEE) Last time we wrote you, Revs. Dave Dunn and Jeff Jones were in jail after stopping construction at Cop City in Atlanta with their bodies. We are happy to share that all 5 who were arrested were released from jail with misdemeanor charges! Additionally, Rev. Christina Branum-Martin, Rev. Misha Sanders, and other UUs joined others to deliver over 116,000 petition signatures collected by the Cop City Vote Coalition in support of letting Atlantans decide if they want Cop City at all. The City of Atlanta is trying a legal appeal to avoid verifying signatures, a decision that Senator Raphael Warnock and Stacey Abrams both criticized as deeply anti-democratic.
We're grateful to be part of a movement that won't cede ground to fascism, increased militarization of our public safety, and destruction of our green spaces.
As Unitarian Universalists, we hold deeply to the truth that there is no one singular right way to live and love. We see this flourishing in the work to Stop Cop City: some folks put their bodies in front of construction equipment while others tediously match thousands of referendum signatures one by one while others bring food and care for babies.
Our call to collective liberation includes all this and more – we root deeply in spiritual practice for strength and courage, we send cards and food and song as our prayers, we summon the courage to show up and out of our comfort zones again and again, and we also rest in the dark peace of night when we need it.
NEWS FROM THE OKLAHOMA POLICY INSTITUTE:
Poverty Results from Structural Barriers, Not Personal Choices. Safety Net Programs Should Reflect That Fact (2021)
Many families—especially people of color, who have been disproportionately affected by the pandemic—were already facing severe economic challenges because of structural barriers preventing them from reaping the benefits of a strong economy. These families sometimes rely on federal safety net programs to access the resources they need to afford food, rent, and other necessities. But the social safety net is fundamentally inequitable. The structure of programs like Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) and the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) ignore systemic barriers rooted in structural racism that disproportionately affect people of color, especially Black Americans. Instead, these programs are meager and punitive, designed to blame individual shortcomings—even though evidence debunks the myth that laziness or poor choices cause poverty.
NEWS FROM ACLU: Classes are back in full swing, and so is school censorship.We're fighting for the right to learn. In this dire moment for our right to learn, here's what you need to know about the latest wave of school censorship:
1. 35% of K-12 students are not able to exercise their right to properly learn about race and gender in class because of "anti-CRT" curriculum changes. And, in a particularly egregious case in Florida, Ron DeSantis has directed teachers to tell students that slavery benefited Black people.
2. Last year, 2,500 books were banned, mostly because they discussed race, gender, sexuality, or marginalized identities. The banned titles include Pulitzer Prize winning novels, like Toni Morrison's Beloved and Art Spiegelman's Maus.
3. We're fighting back. We've gone to court to protect the right to learn in Missouri, New Hampshire, Oklahoma, Virginia, and more. And, we have already successfully convinced a court to pause the implementation of Florida's censorship law in higher education.
If we protect the right to learn, we can raise a strong generation of leaders who will help us build a more perfect union.
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Radical Welcoming Committee |
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Bisexuality is beautiful. It is not about choosing a side, it’s about recognizing the beauty and complexity of all genders and embracing that aspect of oneself unapologetically. Wherever you are in your journey with bisexuality is where you are supposed to be and you are enough!
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1UC VOICE
There’s a lot going on the 1UC VOICE Team. We’re working on 5 issues: Predatory Lending, Criminal Justice, Education, Mental Health, and Housing.
There’s a fund-raiser at Panera Bread (across from Integers on NW Expressway) On October 10 from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm. Be sure and bring a copy of the flyer in order for VOICE to get credit. We’re keeping a close eye on the new Thunder Arena plans and our annual fund-raiser “VOICE Gala of Gratitude” (or click on the picture below for tickets) is coming up on Friday, October 27. See Maureen Harvey or Sundra Flansburg for tickets.
Our next meeting will be Sunday,October 29, 9:00 am in the Eddy Room.
Contact Maureen Harvey for more information (mharvey5@cox.net).
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Welcome new Committee!
The function of the Committee on Ministry is to monitor on a regular and continuing basis the effectiveness of the church’s ministry, acknowledging and praising areas of strength, and assessing the reasons behind areas of perceived weakness or dissatisfaction, so that we, as a congregation, can grow into our full potential and fulfill our mission. If you have any questions about the role of the Committee on Ministry or have concerns, praise, or ideas about the ministries of this church, you are welcome to reach out to a member of the CoM: Rebecca Daniels, Lori Jervis, Tom Peryam, Liz Pillar-Little, James Vaughn, Derrick Wagner
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Note: Most meetings continue to meet via Zoom but some groups may elect to meet in the building. Please contact the meeting organizer directly if you are uncertain of the location.
- Sunday Morning Meditation – Every Sunday at 10:00 am, Meditation Room - Corley Commons (contact Lori Jervis for information - see article above)
- Tuesday Discussion Group – Every Tuesday, 11:00 am (contact Ron Wasson for information - see article above)
- Bell Choir Rehearsal – Every Wednesday, 5:45 pm, Sanctuary (contact LaDonna Hunt for information)
- Choir Rehearsal – Every Wednesday, 7:00 pm, Sanctuary (contact 'Ebuka Ezeakacha for information)
- Membership Meeting – Thursday, September 28, 6:00 pm (contact Lorriana Lee-Knapp for information)
- 1UC Alliance Brown Bag Lunch/Program – Tuesday, October 3, 11:30 am, Daniel Hall (contact Maureen Harvey for information)
- UU Book Club – Thursday, October 5, 7:00 pm (contact Steve Gryglewicz for information)
- Fiber Connections – Sunday, October 8, 12:00 pm, Eddy Room (contact Paula Geisinger for information)
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Current Safety Level: Masks Are Encouraged
Masks are optional at all church events but are always welcome and encouraged.
- If you choose not to wear a mask, it is especially important that you do not attend services or events if you have any symptoms typical of COVID, flu, or RSV. Please stay home and join us online.
- Please continue to wash your hands frequently. And please be sure to throw away used tissues. Don't leave them in the pews.
- No one should ever be pressured into removing their mask. Please honor everyone's choice.
- If you haven't yet had your latest COVID booster please get it now!
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If you have a newsletter article you would like to submit please email your article to mgrogg@1uc.org no later than Tuesday (the day before the newsletter goes out) by 5:00 pm.
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In order to save printing and mailing costs and to conserve natural resources, the Annual Report will not be mailed by default to all congregants. Instead, it is available online. Please contact Marlies Grogg (mgrogg@1uc.org) if you would like to receive a hard copy of the Annual Report.
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Did you know that you can access all church policies and procedures as well as Board meeting minutes on our new website? Just go to 1uc.org, and click on the "members" link in the upper right-hand corner (just to the left of the Facebook and other social media icons). This will open a page that says "Protected: Members." The password is @600NW13thSt [Note: the password is case-sensitive; do not put in additional punctuation or spaces.]
From here, click on "church documents." All official policies and procedures can be found in the "policies" folder. The bylaws and Board of Trustees meeting minutes are in the "governance" folder. Please disregard the "website SOPs" folder, which is for administrative use only.
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CHURCH STAFF
Lead Minister - Rev. Diana K. Davies
Director of Lifespan Religious Exploration - Tim Atkins
Choir Director - Chukwuebuka ('Ebuka) G. Ezeakacha
Accompanist - Steven Elkins Kennedy
Office Administrator - Marlies Grogg
BOARD OF TRUSTEES 2023-2024
President of the Congregation – Marcia Woodward
President Elect – Cathy Webster
Immediate Past President – Marshal Gimpel
Clerk – Deborah Shinn
Treasurer – Ron Wasson
Clare Auwarter Lorriana Lee-Knapp Larry Little
Ann Meeks Coba Neitzel Doug Vincent
Committee on Ministry
Rebecca Daniels Lori Jervis Liz Pillar-Little Tom Peryam James Vaughn Derrick Wagner
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