A girl wrote to the Rebbe about her difficulties in shidduchim, and how it had affected her spirits. The Rebbe responded: אזכיר עה"צ
In response to your previous letter - about your situation and your mood - I read it with great shock - If you pay attention to the simple meaning of the eighteen morning Brachos, in which you bless Hashem at the beginning of every day - You will see that, bli ayin ara you have been blessed with all of them. In addition, you have been blessed with good health, good parents, good education, a good community, a good profession and parnassa, and more.
If so, what is the justification for your complaints and so on?! The only thing that needs to be fixed - is that you are not married yet. And the true cause for that is - that when you are offered a Shidduch you look for excuses to get out of it.
When you change this [attitude], this matter too will come to its resolution. I will mention you at the tziyon.
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