"You write that many Shidduch suggestions were made, but when it came to finalizing, it was not successful and you ask why? In the majority of cases this is because you have not decided that after the wedding your house will be based on Torah & Mitzvos, and Hashem hopes you will come to this realization, which is critical to your marriage. When you make such a decision, that even in a difficult situation, you will act as the daughter of Sarah, Rivkah, Rachel, and Leah, Hashem will find you your Bashert. In order to speeden the Bracha, you can donate a Franc every day to the needy." |