Instead of hearing progress, I was told my continual presence at court dates was unnecessary. In fact, it hurt my case. By showing up in court, it lends credibility to his claim that I was stalking him. I was accused of being at the hearings to see him, possibly even to coerce him into a relationship with me. I stayed as calm as I could, firmly explaining the state’s Victim Bill of Rights allowed me to be at each court proceeding.
I wasn’t a victim, he explained.
Since the perpetrator is “innocent until proven guilty” there is no formal acknowledgment that a crime has even been committed—only that the evidence suggests one has. As such, there is no victim, only an alleged victim, and the Victim’s Bill of Rights does not apply.
Go home, I was told. If my presence was needed by the prosecution, I’d be notified in advance. Disregard the notices of court proceedings—that’s just a formality, he said.
Shock. Rage. Disappointment. A mixture of emotions overwhelmed me. It threatened to consume me, but I couldn’t allow it. I needed to remain composed. I explained that the lack of communication about my case compelled me to be in attendance to avoid my case being settled or dismissed without my input. The staff member acknowledged his office would communicate more and assured me that they do not accept plea agreements without consulting with those affected.
“After all,” he said, “the district attorney is elected to represent the people and if he fails, he could lose his public office.”
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