Last week's Q&A was:Â Do you still call people on the phone to chat, catch-up, stay connected? Yes or No?
Oh, how I loved your answers! Iâm happy to know the phone is alive and well and being put to good use by eighty-percent of you. As one of the non-calling twenty-percent, I salute you.đ
Hereâs what prompted this question: I learned from a reliable source that a friend of mine was dealing with a serious, non-Covid health issue, but the ongoing Covid issues were making the all-important seeing of specialists and scheduling a speedy treatment difficult.
I felt guilty that something so important to such a dear friend had slipped past me until I realized that all of our typical methods of communicating: at the Post Office or community fundraisers or bumping into each other in stores or at craft sales had been sidelined due to Covid.
So, I picked up the phone and called her to see how I could help. I was relieved to hear that sheâd persevered with proper diagnosis and treatment and could claim a very promising prognosis. We talked for a good half an hour, and the next day when I delivered a little care package (outside, wearing a mask and maintaining very careful distance). We talked some moreâabout families, sidelined plans, and a future get-together once itâs safe. She told me how happy sheâd been to hear my voiceâand I felt the same way.
Then, the next morning I learned of the death of Susan Crosby, a dear friend and published author who welcomed me to the writing community and acted as a mentor to me for many years. When she retired and became active in other areas of her life, we lost touch. The news of her passing made me take a hard look at my friendship skills. Being a friendâas many of you shared in your response to last weekâs questionâmeans reaching out and checking in with the people we love and valueâŚbefore itâs too late.
Iâm not known for my successful New Yearâs Resolutions, but this one is mine for 2021: I will call, email or text my friends no less than once a month. But my first line of connection will be a phone call because thereâs nothing like hearing a friendâs voice to know youâre not alone in this crazy world.
My two randomly selected winners this week are:
Lennie McDonald and Debbie J.
(Lennie and Debbie congrats. Please email me your pick of either a $5 Starbucks or a $5 Amazon gift card.)
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