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The irony with manifesting
Hello Millionaires!
We know from the Law of Attraction that in order to manifest your desire, you must become a vibrational match with it.
As I told you a few weeks ago, I just finished listening to the book on manifesting a life partner, Calling in the One, and in it, the author talks about not getting too rigid with your ask. Instead of describing the perfect man, "He's a lawyer with brown hair and drives a Porsche," you go more meta with the ask. What is the energy of the person or relationship you desire? The qualities like "supportive, financially fit, successful" vs. too specific.
I know there are also manifesting techniques that tell you to get uber-specific, so you'll have to decide for yourself how much detail to put in or not.
My belief is that rather than specifics, you try to get to the ENERGY of what you want. Look beneath it for why you want that thing. You want a new car? What would it feel like to drive that car? Freedom? Glory? Success? If you can feel those energies, you can pull in the new car with total ease. And this is where the irony part comes in for me.
You see, underneath the target of hitting the USA Today list or 7 figures as an author, what I was really going for was...validation. I wanted proof that I was worthy as an author. That my books were good enough. That I was deserving.
So, in order to manifest hitting the USA Today list solo, or making 7 figures a year, I had to become a vibrational match with believing I was already there--that I already was worthy! So by the time I achieved those goals, I already had captured the feeling I was going for.
This doesn't mean manifesting ALL THE THINGS YOU DESIRE isn't necessary. It is--you're worth it! You should have everything you've dreamed of having. But the glory of this is that you can have those energies right now. You can be those energies right now.
It's Step 5 from Write to Riches: Live it Now.
So what are your big asks? The scary audacious goals you may not even want to breathe out loud for fear someone will try to knock you down for even desiring it?
1. Ask-- what would it FEEL LIKE to have achieved these goals? What's underneath my desire for them?
2. Now marinate in that energy-- the abundance or success or glory or validation or whatever it is you know comes with having achieved that goal.
3. When you go to sleep at night, pull that energy in as you fall asleep, or ask to dream about having the thing you're inviting into your life.
4. Open up to receive everything you've been asking for. And enjoy the irony that you really could take it or leave it now because you already have been living in the energy of it! :-)
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