5. Hey Y'all
Did you take a spring break this year?
The stars aligned, all of our spring breaks matched up, and we went to Iowa to visit family.
While there, we took our college-bound son to tour alma mater—Iowa State University, in Ames.
My husband and I met and married in Ames, and we left together in a Penske moving truck in 1998, not to return for almost 20 years.Â
Things sure do change in 20 years.
That Jennifer Nettles/Bon Jovi song about coming home to your roots was going through my head the entire time we were there. They sing, “who says you can’t go home?” and “who says you can’t go back?” Their message (I think) is that you can always go home again.
But being on campus again, a place I called home for six years, I was struck by how things change in ways so that you can’t go back—not even in memory. The place seemed so different I was having trouble remembering what my life even was when I lived there.
Certainly I could move to Ames Iowa if I felt so compelled, but I can’t go back to what I knew of as home when I lived there.
So many things were new. New dormitories and remodels of old dormitories. New buildings and sky-walks and rock climbing walls and classrooms. New apartment complexes. New benches. New cafes in nearly every building on campus. (You can drink coffee inside the library now!!!!!!) New restaurants and stores. Even the old restaurants and stores are in new locations, so the places we did know were unfamiliar.
It’s still Iowa State, but it’s a new version of itself. I suppose that is true for most of us. I’m still the Cherri of then, but I’m a new version of me.*
You can’t go back. Not really. Not even if people with pretty hair tell you it’s possible.
The exception, of course, was pizza. Great Plains Sauce and Dough, where we learned to put honey on our crust, was still in the same place, with the same awful wooden booths, playing the same radio station.
We ate our fill while listening to 90's rock.
Cherri
*Any Felicity fans in the house?
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