"While Swedish graduations evidently vary a bit from school to school, the general gist is the same. Graduation day is one of jubilant celebration, a success and a release. Both boys and girls dress in white and wear traditional caps. They gather together, often by class, at the school. Parents are gathered outside holding signs they have made with pictures of their kids, often as babies.
One class at a time comes out. At some schools, they perform a song and/or dance they have created. At the one we attended, the class came out behind a band. The students then race to their parents and friends who bedeck them with a huge assortment of stuffed animals, flowers and trinkets that they hang from ribbons on their necks.
Next, a line of huge trucks pull up. Their sides have been decorated by students. The kids climb on board to music being piped at ear splitting levels. Once on board, they sing, dance, wave and drink their way around town.
When the parade is over, the celebration continues. Families host massive parties where the kids rotate through, greeting each other with hugs and gifts.
We experienced such joy, such warmth, a true spirit of jubilation, of pride in accomplishment in these graduates.
No pretentious speeches. No diploma-handing-out. No sweating.
Instead of being the objects of a few more tedious lectures, on being advised one last time by those in authority, how to live their lives, students in Sweden are handed the reigns of their own spirit and allowed to fly.
That to me is the real meaning of graduation."
—Lynn Colwell(one of our book club members), Graduation Makeover?
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