š PERSONAL EXPERIENCE:
I lately realized thinking and working on productivity and time management, reading on the mental toll that even if you are good at time management, we tend to end up trapped under a pile of mental clutter quite often⦠As if this was the fate of our current fellows. Something that is insane when we look into it as we have never been more equipped with tools to get access to information and organize our life⦠So we shall be less overwhelmed as we do not need to feel the pressure of storing too much information⦠Well⦠that would be if we were not sense-making species which somehow explained why our brain is busier than ever before as an information-processing systemā¦
My own reality-checked allowed me to verbalize there is nothing more frustrating to me than hearing/feeling the noise of my busy mind and being unable to focus on what matters. Thinking about too many things at once is exhausting. And well⦠as a deep thinker and questioner, Iām might be a champion š at it... š
So I knew I needed to š§¹work on it.
It is not until working on this newsletter and making my research though that I realized the sporty challenge and new habits I got in 2020 may have also helped me. So š„ cheers to this as well š
Getting back to what I intentionally worked on recently as regard decluttering my brain, Iām really into the idea of the ālivewiredā brain as developed and introduced by David Eagleman ā a concept to demonstrate that our brain reconfigures itself, adjusts, and adapts to whateverās going on around it to optimize its function. However, it helped me to visualize for a moment the thinking and memory process as a bunch of hardware and software, therefore, allowing me to be intentional in creating a tool/mechanism to close the running tabs, block unwanted pop-up or save for later, just like Tabby, Adblock and Pocket extensions do for Chrome.
I did it for myself using two distinct approaches.
Firstly, I created my own āstop the dwelling on somethingā tool through mindfulness. Itās one thing to feel annoyed by the noise of our brain⦠itās another to notice your brain is getting loud before it paralyzes you! Through meditation and therefore a greater sense of mindfulness, Iāve been able to allow me to stop and pause. When I feel too overwhelmed and sense my brain crying out of despair⦠I pause everything and decide to clear out what can be by breathing in and out. Sometimes it takes just 30 seconds, sometimes 5 minutes, sometimes 15ā¦but these minutes are not lost they rather represent whatās needed to get my focus back.
I also decided to be pro-active in getting a stab at taking ownership and responsibility for those annoying run-around thoughts and develop an external brain system where I could dump all-important but irrelevant as of now thoughts. And this went beyond the usual To-do list, though it can be a starting point. So I started building my own brain-dump system to free up some space and be in the capacity to decide whatās important. This system is a combination of writing down and using technology. With my morning journaling, I dump down thoughts and process my feelings ā I find it helpful to identify recurring patterns and thoughts. And with my āexternal brainā I can store all info available on a specific subject as well as articles or books I want to read into a machine with no storage limit.
Itās been a long and sometimes difficult path of ātry, learn, adjustā. Itās a work still in process. But one of the main lessons so far: even if there is nothing easy about taking those steps⦠Any steps I took toward curating a healthy environment for myself were well worth the effort.
Getting clarity in our mind, helps us reconnect to what really matters, therefore elevating us to a new level of thinking and feeling.
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