Belonging has been on my mind lately -- perhaps because I've been missing my childhood home more than usual, perhaps because I'm thinking a lot about how I can really find my place here in France. Three books that I've read in the past couple of months have helped me to think about these things more deeply.
Minor Feelings, by Cathy Park Hong. This book combines memoir with history and cultural criticism to take a deep dive into what it means to live and belong in America when your skin color isn't white. Of all the books I've read in the past couple of years, this one has been the biggest eye-opener, the loudest wake-up call. ("To read this book is to become more human," said Claudia Rankine.) It was published a year ago, but it seems even more relevant now, given the horrific spike in violence and aggression toward Asian-Americans across the US.
My Berlin Kitchen, by Luisa Weiss. A lighter but still engrossing read, this memoir from a food-blogger-turned-author includes recipes along the way, which is a winner for me. Most of the drama happens in the author's 20s, when she's deciding whether settle down in the US (her father's home country) or her mother's native Europe. If you like it, be sure to check out Weiss's next book, which is a major favorite in our house.
Aftershocks, by Nadia Owusu. This one, a memoir, tells the author's story of growing up as a biracial, country-hopping UN kid who loses both of her parents (her mother leaves; her father dies) before she turns 14. The narrative digs deep into what it really means to belong somewhere, what it means to be home. The writing is lyrical, haunting and deeply moving (read: I was sobbing at the end).
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